Most everything in my life seems as if I had to fight for it. So I should not have been surprised that I would need to fight for my life and my freedom from my ex. Fear is a powerful thing. Fear will either push you, or it will paralyze you. For most of my life I was paralyzed by it. 

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Everyone always wants to know 3 things when they hear.  How did you meet, why did you stay, and how did I finally leave?

But the answer is so much more complicated than that. It goes deeper than just looking at the relationship. In order to understand how I got there we must go back to the beginning. My beginning. 

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Not only will you see my ugly truths, but you will see the beauty in the strength of a woman whose only strength was relying on God and holding onto promises given to a mother who passed them on to her child.